Jesus taught about sexual desires & sex life through The Bible in Mathew 5:27-30
"You have heard that it was said 'Do not commit adultery.' But now I tell you : any one who looks at a woman and wants to possess her is guilty of committing adultery with her in his heart. So if you right eye causes you to sin take it out and throw it away! It is much better for you to lose a part of your body than to have whole body thrown into hell. If your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away! It is much better for you to lose one of your limbs than for your whole body to go to hell. Mathew 5:27-30
It seems common these days to look at people with sexual desires as the internet and other media motivate this thought into the minds of people not sparing children. This is a bad habit like drugs, liquor etc. Well it seems impossible to get rid of these desires. But there is a way to get rid of all these evil desires.
Step1: Pray to Jesus and ask Him to forgive you of all your wrong doings and ask him to remove & prevent you from this desire and habit. Jesus will surely set you free.
Dear Father in Heaven, Please forgive me for my wrongdoings and please remove all desire in me for bad habits and Please take charge of me from now on. I ask in the name of Jesus. Amen (Amen - meaning "So be it")
That's how easy a life changing prayer is, you will see how Jesus change things in and around your life from now on. It just takes a similar prayer to be saved for more details visit How to be Saved.
Step2: You will find similar evil motivating situations come as before in life but now you will not have the desire as before. But if you force yourself to try to probe or play with the old habit, you will feel an inner voice urging you to stop. At this point just pray to Jesus in your heart to help you out of this situation. But if you still willingly persist with your wrong desires then the Living God will take His protection away from you as you desire so. Then you fall prey to sin. This is a dangerous situation so don't ever play around with sinful desire.
Bible teaches in Hebrews 13:4, "Marriage is to be honored by all, and husbands & wives must be faithful to each other. God will judge those who are immoral and those who commit adultery."
So please take care casual sex is not approved by God.
God warns us through Bible on the outcome of sex away from marriage.
Bible: in Malachi 2:13-16 "13 Another thing you do: You flood the LORD's
altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer pays attention
to your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands.
14 You ask, "Why?" It is because the LORD is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.
15 Has not the LORD made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.
16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty.
So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith." Malachi 2:13-16
Yes by mistake if you have become part of this
sin (wrong doing) now what should you do? Is there any hope for me?
How can I be free from this guilt & shame? Will God forgive me
for this? Can I ever have a normal life?
Yes, Jesus loves you just as you are. If you are sincerely want to get rid of all your sins and be saved then click on the link and know more about salvation. Do remember when you tell the salvation prayer all your sins of past will be forgiven hence don't ever try to do the same sin again. If you feel the urge to sin pray to Jesus as said above. how to be saved. Have a blessed happy life with hope & everlasting Joy.